I was disappointed at first that we could not experience the ultimate closeness
When I suddenly fell in love in my 70s, I was surprised to rediscover my libido. Having been widowed for several years, I had not expected to feel a sexual urge again.
My new partner’s desire is equally strong and we both looked forward to satisfying physical intimacy. However, this has not been possible because of his erectile dysfunction, caused by a combination of factors: age, health issues and medication. We were both a bit nervous and clumsy in our first attempts at lovemaking and my partner’s problem quickly became apparent. His reactions were predictable and understandable: embarrassment, shame and fear that not being able to consummate our love might undermine the relationship and make me feel undesirable.
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