Meet up and apologise so you can both air your feelings, says Mariella Frostrup
The dilemma Four years ago, I made a new friend. We quickly became close and did everything together. Friends would observe that we acted like a couple and often asked when we would cop on and get together, but while my friend is very attractive, and I care about them more than anyone outside my family, I didn’t feel love or sexual chemistry.
Last year we slept together a couple of times while quite intoxicated. It didn’t feel right to me and I regretted it. My friend wanted more, although we never talked about it clearly in those terms. Things broke down and we aren’t talking now. I’m dating someone I care about deeply, but I’m not in love. I don’t have trouble attracting wonderful people, but eventually this is how all my relationships go… I feel I’m not in love and we part.
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