The married woman who rediscovered sex
In the last six months, I’ve had sex with 15 men – not including my husband of 25 years. I’ve also talked to many men who tell me the same story: “I love my wife and we have built a great life together, but she doesn’t want to have sex. She recoils when I touch her and when we do have sex, she just lies there and doesn’t do anything.” It seems many women of my demographic (middle-aged, middle class, kids) don’t or can’t enjoy sex. I’ve been there myself.
Before last year, my marriage had been sexless for two decades. My husband and I are still trying to unravel why, but I think it boils down to two things: women today are overburdened, and most of us have forgotten how important touch and sex are – even if we were crazy about sex when we met our partners.
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