Until now, I’ve always dated men who are up to 10 years older than me. I don’t want to give up on this lovely man, but how can I overcome the age difference?
I am a 32-year-old woman who is dating a 28-year-old man. I am trying my best not to give up on this young man who loves me dearly, but I’m not enjoying the sex at all and sex is very important to me. I’ve never had an issue in previous relationships with staying sexually aroused, but since being with him I’ve struggled to do so. He is the only guy I’ve been with who is younger than me. I’ve always dated men who are eight to 10 years older. At first, I thought it was me and that maybe I was going through a premenopausal stage, but I’m finding that other older men still arouse me. How can I direct this love affair without hurting his feelings?
This is a new chapter in your sexual growth: teaching someone exactly how to please you. In the past, you may have relied on the experience of your partners, but now it’s up to you. Embrace this opportunity to become the architect of your own pleasure. Try to be confident enough to ask and learn what pleases him. Your new partner’s age is not the issue; many people under 30 are pretty good lovers. In any case, it is often the ability to communicate well that makes one appear to be a genius in the erotic arts. Somehow, your 28 year-old has missed out on some important information and is too shy to ask you how you like it. Be the teacher – and relish it!
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