Before you do anything drastic, you may want to look at things a bit differently, says Annalisa Barbieri
I am 31, and have been dating my boyfriend, J, for a year. I am developing deep feelings for him, but have an inkling that he is a sexually repressed homosexual. I do not want to end up falling in love with him, marrying – having children – only to find out that, although he may have loved me, we never truly shared a sexual attraction.
Despite his tender and affectionate nature, I have never felt him to be sexually attracted to me. I often initiate sex (and am often ignored). In previous relationships, I have found myself fending off consistent unwanted advances, and any move on my part would have been taken up. When we do have sex he turns the lights off, and it’s always just before we go to sleep.
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