She says she wants to get to know me, but I don’t feel this public occasion is suitable for any attempt at reconciliation
I have had an invitation to my niece’s wedding that includes a note saying she hopes my partner and I will attend so she can “start to get to know her only uncle”. She is 27 and my brother’s eldest child, but I have seen her only twice. My brother cut contact after I came out to him 40 years ago and has ignored my efforts to reconnect. I don’t believe my brother’s attitude has changed and I don’t feel this public occasion is right for any attempt at reconciliation. But my partner feels that to refuse would scupper hope of any future relationship.
When leaving a message on this page, please be sensitive to the fact that you are responding to a real person in the grip of a real-life dilemma, who wrote to Private Lives asking for help, and may well view your comments here. Please consider especially how your words or the tone of your message could be perceived by someone in this situation, and be aware that comments that appear to be disruptive or disrespectful to the individual concerned will be removed.
Continue reading...from Lifestyle | The Guardian http://bit.ly/2W32V09